50 Shades Further: How To Take Your Bondage Play to the Next Level

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Gone are the days where people heard the words BDSM and frowned upon it. Ever since movies like Fifty Shades of Gray made their appearance on the big screen, more and more people are opening the doors to their risky sexual playgrounds.

If you and your partner(s) are into bondage, there are ways to take things to the next level and truly increase the amount of pleasure you both receive. Don’t stop reading; now continue and find new ways to incorporate bondage toys and gear into your sessions.

Give Into the Heat

When we say give in to the heat, all it means is to have fun with temperature play. Nothing will get your partner more excited than being hot and feeling something cold sliding against their body.

If you’re into using bondage toys, you can think about temperature when considering the material that your toys are made out of. For example, if you’ve got a variety of glass toys, you can take them in place them in a container of cold water in preparation for your sexual escapades.

Another way to incorporate temperature in your bondage play is to use hot wax. Ensure you don’t overheat the wax because the last thing you want to do is burn your partner.

Orgasm Denial

Once you’ve reached your climax for some people, that’s where the fun ends, but what if you don’t want the fun to end. Another way you can take your bondage play to the next level is by using orgasm denial as a tactic in your session.

It’s like a cat and mouse game where you take your partner as close to the edge as possible and pull back before they go over. After you’ve stopped, take a couple of minutes to allow them to cool down, and then do it over again.

The best part about orgasm denial is that you can use toys, machines, your mouth, and more to pull it off.

Incorporate Bondage Furniture

Don’t want your partner to run away from you while you’re pleasuring them? Think about purchasing bondage furniture to keep them in place.

There are several types of furniture that you can look into that come with their own set of quirks and kinks. For example, if you enjoy a good bit of doggy-style action, you could select furniture that locks your partner into that position.

Or you could find furniture that keeps your partner in the missionary position; therefore, no matter how much they want to stop after climaxing, they have to stay in position and enjoy being pleasured.

Toys, Toys, Toys Galore

Bondage play only gets better when you add more toys to the mix. You can introduce toys to your sessions, depending on what you’re in the mood for.

If you and your partner have considered anal play, we recommend purchasing some anal plugs. This will help you work your way up to the big leagues without causing your partner any pain.

Another toy that you can bring into your sessions is cock rings. Cock rings help your partner to maintain an erection throughout your intimate moments.

Heighten Your Senses

Orgasming is your body’s response to being pleasured; once your body has reached a certain point, a significant amount of dopamine is released and spreads throughout the body. To take bondage play to the next level, you should think about using CBD before your session.

Consuming CBD edibles can help you, and your partner relax, forcing you to let go of any inhibitions you have and enjoying what’s about to occur. You can also use other products such as CBD oils and lotions while giving or receiving a massage to truly get into the mood.

Light Discipline

If you’re into the submissive and dominant roles that come with bondage play, this will help make things better. In some bedrooms, spanking, your partner could get you hot and bothered and ready for serious action.

Of course, if you and your partner agree to spanking, start lightly and work your way up from there. If you’re causing your partner pain that breaches the lines of fun and enjoyment, you need to stop.

But, since we’re on the topic of spanking, as Rihanna sings, ‘whips excite me,’ you can use whips, feathers, and tons of other sensory toys to engage in your sensual acts of discipline.

Bite Me

Biting can be used to take things to the next level in ways you’d never even imagined. Before you start your next bondage session, we recommend that you take the time to research erogenous zones.

Knowing where these zones are will help you pinpoint the areas that you need to bite. If you know which areas are hotspots for your partner, those are the areas that you need to target when biting.

It might also help if you switch between biting, licking, and caressing these areas. Before you know it, you’ll have them on the edge of climaxing without the need for penetration.

Bondage Play Every Day

There are tons of ways that you can use the tips we’ve provided to make your bondage sessions much more rewarding than they already are. If you want to tease your partner without penetration, take advantage of their senses and engage in sensory play by biting them.

If you need to add some toys to your collection, check out the products we have at the New Fine Arts. If you need extra tips, we’ve got a section for that too.

7 Factors to Consider When Buying CBD Oils

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Since CBD oil sales were legalized in 2019, Texans have gleefully rushed to purchase their favorite CBD products for both health and play.

As long as the products contain less than .3% of the psychoactive element in marijuana, consumers may purchase and enjoy CBD products however they fancy.

For some, this means pain or anxiety relief. For others, this means that sexual experimentation with the substance can finally begin in a legal capacity. Sexy, right?

Before jumping into bed with a new product, it’s important to do your research. Keep reading for everything you should consider before buying CBD oils.

What Is CBD?

CBD– or, cannabidiol–is derived from the cannabis sativa or hemp plant. When derived from hemp, CBD contains the lowest traces of THC– the psychoactive properties of the plant. It is currently sold as an unregulated therapeutic compound with many potential benefits.

CBD is often used to treat anxiety, insomnia, pain, IBS relief, skin issues, cardiovascular health, and inflammation. When used topically, it creates a serious sense of comfort and relaxation. When used in the bedroom, it can relieve partners of their stresses and insecurities by interacting with the central nervous system and potentially affecting serotonin levels.

Factors to Consider When Buying CBD Oils

Not all CBD is made equal. You’ll want to consider your reasons for purchasing, as well as where your CBD has been sourced and tested for purity.

1. How Will You Use Your CBD?

How are you using your CBD? The benefits of CBD can spark many ideas for its possible use, including:

  • Therapeutic or sensual massage
  • Deeper sleep
  • Comfortable exercise
  • Better orgasms through blood flow and stress relief
  • Improved mental health

While most options for CBD oils are multi-purpose products that can be used for various pain points, determine your reason for bringing CBD into your routine. Ask yourself (and your partner) what the outcome should be before making your purchase.

2. What Kind of CBD Product?

Different CBD products are available depending on your needs. Options for CBD oils include:

  • Topical massage and lubricant oil
  • CBD oil capsules for consumption
  • Cooking oil
  • CBD E-cig oils

Choose just one brand to start, or try out sample sizes of the products that intrigue you. We recommend a topical massage oil for newbies.

3. Where Is It Sourced?

CBD is derived from either the cannabis sativa plant, or its cousin– the hemp plant. Most legal CBD is derived from the hemp plant due to its lower THC content– a compound that is still illegal in many states.

After you determine if your CBD is hemp or marijuana-derived, it’s always good to consider the environment in which the CBD was grown. Because both plants and your body absorb toxins and pesticides in whatever they come into contact with, look for CBD that has been grown and processed with natural methods.

4. Extraction Process

There are three common extraction methods to consider when purchasing CBD. These include:

  • Solvent extraction method – quick and effective process, but may remove terpenes that affect healing properties
  • Olive oil extraction – very cost-effective, but may result in fast product expiration
  • CO2 extraction method – least effective, has the potential for a low-quality product

While all of these extraction methods are approved by manufacturers, it’s important to determine how you’ll be using the product. Think about whether you require a shelf-stable product, a high-quality therapeutic product, or one that is easier on your budget.

5. Third-Party Testing

A third-party testing company will be able to provide unbiased evaluations of the product. Wondering where to begin? Ask the experts at your local CBD provider to learn more about the quality and integrity of the product they are selling.

Additionally, a Certificate of Analysis from an independent laboratory will give you peace of mind in knowing that the oil you are purchasing contains less than 0.3% of THC.

6. CBD Concentration

Understanding the concentration of CBD will be crucial in the product’s therapeutic effects. Some users may require a higher concentration of CBD to feel the effects or to help with their pain.

Remember– the CBD content will not be the same volume as the amount of oil you are purchasing. Because of this, a larger bottle is not necessarily better!

Most CBD oil comes in 10mL to 20mL bottles, though they usually contain 250-1,500mg CBD per bottle. Look to the recommended single-serving dosage when determining the right size for your needs.

7. Where to Buy CBD

If you’re looking to buy CBD for the first time, consider the pros and cons of where you’ll be making your purchase.

If you decide to buy CBD oil online, make sure you are dealing with a reputable online dealer. Buying CBD oils online can give you the widest range of options possible when browsing tinctures, capsules, vapes, and topicals. A business with an updated website can provide accurate laboratory reports and online customer reviews.

Buying CBD oil in stores might make for limited options, as businesses must choose just a handful of their favorite products to keep in stock. However, a brick-and-mortar store can often provide a wealth of knowledge with a highly trained staff.

We personally prefer a dealer that can provide both an in-store experience as well as a best-in-class online store!

Bring the Benefits to Your Bedroom

If you’re new to buying CBD oils or already an experienced user, the benefits in the bedroom are outstanding and customizable. Whether you like it for pain relief, a new kind of lubricant, or the mental release it provides you, CBD is a great addition to your sex life.

Needing to restock your CBD supply? Browse our full line of CBD products — including topicals, e-cigarettes, lotions, candies, and oils. Refill your nightstand with your favorite form of CBD and get ready for a really fun night-in.

Sex During Vacation

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In bed you can do a thousand things including giving free rein to your imagination. But what about out of bed, or even not at home? New Fine Arts has some tips to enjoy your vacation.

Orgasms  can cross borders. Well, maybe we have overdone it…. But it’s sure they can go beyond the walls of your house. Yes, as you read it. You can play in the supermarket, in a restaurant, on a walk… And all thanks to the toys New Fine Arts offers. They are great experts in triggering the excitement and test the complicity of any partner.

1.      Intelligent toys

This is the perfect opportunity to try new smart toys  if you haven’t tried them yet. You can wear vibrating panties, for example, while you are somewhere with your partner or if you are in a taxi. This is a new experience for both of you. So, when you get to the hotel you will be both crazy to have the best moment of the vacation… full of passion and fantasies.

2.      Sexting

We all carry our cell phones with us. Why not utilize them in a creative way! This is something you could take advantage of to ignite the passion with your partner. If you are alone or even surrounded by strangers, you can start sending each other sexy text messages saying what you want, feel, like or even fantasize about. Also, if you are a little more daring you can send each other some provocative photos while enjoying other activities during your vacation. 

3.      Pretend to be a tourist

If you don’t have the opportunity to go out of town on vacation, staycation is an option. You can visit local places you may have never been to with your partner or haven’t visited in a while. This may include adult stores, hotels, or romantic places where you can indulge your passion. Don’t forget to bring along sexy lingerie and your favorite sex toys .

4.      Enjoy the Water!

During the hot summer days there is nothing better than being in a pool or beach. Imagine adding that you are with your partner enjoying and having an incredible time. Besides, you could enjoy yourselves in an intimate and free way using state of the art sex toys. There are games you can play with them while you are under the water. Obviously choose super private places where you are not going to get into trouble.

5.      Your favorite games

As a couple and through time you surely know the tastes and preferences of your partner, so you can take advantage of the vacations to do what you enjoy so much as a couple, visit new restaurants, hotels, eat new dishes and of course buy new sex toys that make you enjoy  every night of vacation. It is also an excellent time to fulfill the fantasies of each other.

Whatever you plan to do this summer, you can’t miss out on the hot weather, the long nights and enjoy the most with your lover. The first thing you have to do after planning your adventure is to visit one of our New Fine Arts locations in the Metroplex. You will love discovering all we have for you to enjoy alone or with your partner.

LIVE, LOVE,PLAY, SAFE

Why You Should Use a Vibrator

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Sex toys, like the ones we sell at New Fine Arts have many benefits that you may not even know about. In addition to the pleasure you get from using a vibrator, there are more benefits it brings you than you can imagine.

We all know the obvious reasons why we get a battery-powered friend, looking for more intense and more  orgasms, but did you know that vibrators offer other benefits? Surprisingly, it’s not all about pleasure! Here are five reasons why to expand your vibrator collection.

1.      Know Your Body Better

Vibrators  not only help you reach orgasm, but they also help you discover what you like best in the intimacy. The more you know your body and what gives you pleasure, the more satisfying your sex life becomes. Once you discover what turns you on, it is easier to explain it to your partner. Taking control of your own body and owning your orgasms is not only a joy, but also good for your health.

2.      Improve Your Health

When you regularly use a vibrator, you not only increase your orgasms, but also your lubrication; and of course, when you feel pleasure, you release stress and all the disorders related to this condition such as headaches, bad mood, etc. also, when you have orgasms you rest and sleep better and therefore increase your energy level.

3.      Raise Your Self-esteem

When you begin to know your body and know you can reach orgasms, you will never doubt again that you can’t reach them and you will feel deserving of all the pleasure you desire. By having a satisfying sex life your self-esteem will undoubtedly increase, since you are open to enjoy it alone or accompanied knowing what you like and what you are willing to do.

4.      Better Your Relationship

By including vibrators to your intimate relationships with your partner , you take the relationship to a higher level of knowledge, trust, and pleasure. Using sex toys is extremely beneficial for couples as they encounter new experiences and sensations and by using vibrators they get out of the routine; this brings new emotions to the bedroom.

5.      Experiment In a Safe Way

Using vibrators  for the first time  may be a taboo, but when you decide to make them part of your intimate life, there is no turning back. Maybe you have fantasies or want to do and/or experience new things but have not gotten around to it yet; this is an easy and safe way to start experiencing new things for your sex life and at the same time increase your sexual pleasure.

With sex toys, including all types of vibrators, you are guaranteed to feel pleasure whenever you want and however you want. See for yourself the many benefits that this type of product can give you. Come and visit one of our 3 locations in Dallas-Fort Worth and let yourself be surprised by the number of toys for adults that we have at New Fine Arts Dallas. Moreover, you will find quality products and respectful staff willing and ready to meet any special request or question you have.

LIVE, LOVE, PLAY, SAFE

Health Benefits of Having Sex Everyday

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Having sex is one of the most pleasurable activities that human beings can perform, but it also provides important benefits. New Fine Arts tells you the advantages of having sex for your body and mind.

Sexuality  is a central aspect of being human. It encompasses all sorts of subjects like intercourse, gender roles, eroticism, pleasure, intimacy, reproduction, and sexual orientation. Thus, sex is important, and that is also why adult stores have become very popular.

1.      Improves Immune System and Rejuvenate

Having sex has countless health benefits, and one of them is that it improves the immune system. High levels of hormones including an anti-aging chemical, produced by the body itself, seems to be the key to getting and staying healthy and looking younger. During sex, the body produces large amounts hormones, so the level of these elements in the blood increases up to 5 times its normal amount. Having a good dose of sex on a regular basis rejuvenates you and makes you feel and look younger. Sex is one of the best “sports”. 30 minutes of sexual action burns up to 100 calories. Not only this, but the different positions you can perform help you work different muscles of the body and you can also let run your imagination when you include some sex toys in your routine.

2.      Reduces Stress and Pain

It is a hormonal issue. Making love releases endorphins, the hormone of happiness. These substances are similar to analgesic effects, but also in the production of a sense of well-being, so they can help treat depression and stress. In addition to all the feel-good chemicals the brain releases, it also has a decrease in cortisol. Sex is exercise, so it is normal to feel tired after sex. However, the release of oxytocin also helps you feel sleepy. For men in particular, an orgasm reduces activity in the prefrontal cortex of the brain, which is important for getting a good night’s sleep. An Oorgasm can inhibit the emission of neurotransmitters responsible for pain from the spinal cord, so they do not reach the brain to activate the pain signal, in addition to releasing endorphins. Sexual climax works as a natural painkiller.

3.      Increase your Self-esteem

Having sex makes you feel much better about yourself and is basic for us to feel that others value and appreciate us. Feeling desired, experiencing pleasure and provoking pleasure in a partner strengthen our self-concept and help us to be more self-confident. When we feel secure in an intimate relationship, we can experiment more liberally, both for the benefit of our own pleasure and shared pleasure. That’s what sexual self-esteem  is all about, feeling comfy with our bodies and the experiences we have through them and enjoying it with your lover.

4.      Increases Intimacy and Libido

Oxytocin, known as the love hormone, is released during sex. It is associated with increased feelings of trust and empathy – which is a key part of maintaining intimate relationships. If you feel more connected to your partner, your desire for sex – known as libido – may increase. A stronger libido and intimacy with another person can provide the support needed to keep you mentally and physically well. Just as we express our culinary tastes when we start to get to know our partner, we can also discuss our sexual tastes and seek to be a team for both of us to enjoy.

For many more options to enjoy your sexuality visit one of our three New Fine Arts Dallas locations.

Live, Love, Play, Safe

Increasing Your Sexual Imagination: Tips for Writing a Fantasy

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Many people don’t like to admit it, but sexual fantasies are an extremely important part of our social life. Just think about it — what would polite society be without all of the dirty thoughts that keep us going throughout the day?

If everyone’s consciousnesses were to be laid bare before the world, one would see that “perverts” are a lot more common than one might realize. The people we think of as “adventurous” are often just the people who act on their desires.

Having a sexual fantasy is one thing, but writing a fantasy is another. If you want to write a sexual fantasy, you’ve come to the right place. This article will walk you through all you need to know about turning your sexual imagination into words that will rock worlds.

Common Fantasies

While we all have our favorite sexual fantasy, it’s important to understand what gets people going. You might want to write based on your sex life, but the fact of the matter is, sexual fantasy writing — just like sex — is all about give and take.

Find the balance between your sexual preferences and what people commonly like to great something that truly steams.

Sex With Several People

While it’s much dirtier than most people would admit to, sex with several people is the most common sexual fantasy out there. This is wonderful news for a writer. Sex with several people means more characters, more creative situations, and more unique dynamics to explore.

There are many wonderful carnal moments that are achieved during sex with several people. However, the best sexual fantasy writing comes from exploring the psychology behind the fantasy.

Think about why the common person would want sex with many people.

A threesome is interesting, but it’s more interesting when a “girl-next-door” waitress who secretly harbors sexual fantasies begins to flirt with a couple at one of her tables. The flirting is innocent enough, but that night she masturbates because she can’t stop thinking about them. The next night, the couple comes back to the restaurant, and leaves their phone number on their bill next to their tip with a message that says “you’re cute, call us”.

From here, you can go anywhere you want with the actual details of the sex. The important part about writing a sexual fantasy is staging the scene so that it’s erotic as well as believable.

Exhibitionism

Exhibitionism is a tough sexual fantasy to have since public sex can get you arrested. However, when you’re writing a sexual fantasy, you can liberate people’s sexual urges through the page. This is why writing about exhibitionism can be extremely fruitful for anyone creating a sexual fantasy.

Let’s take a look back at the exploits of our girl-next-door waitress.

Say that after she has a threesome with the couple, she finds herself working again next week, and sees the man from the couple at a table again. She flirts with the man while taking his order and asks where his girlfriend is. He explains that his girlfriend couldn’t make it and how much he missed her, all while fingering her under her skirt right at his table.

As you can see, the possibilities are endless when you set up unique situations.

Dominance/Submission

The BDSM community is no longer something strange you hear talked about in hushed whispers. The internet has made many wonderful BDSM sex toys available to help anyone get into the wonderful world of dominance and submission.

While BDSM should always be practiced with safety and communication, the world of sexual fantasy writing is a safe place to explore the darker elements of people’s sexualities. Let’s check back in with our waitress, why don’t we?

Let’s say that after the encounter with the boyfriend, the waitress finishes up her shift and heads over to the couple’s house. There, she finds that the girlfriend is on the bed in lingerie, already masturbating. She explains that she’s been teasing herself all night and that her boyfriend (dom) told her not to orgasm until the waitress came over and ate her out.

Once you establish who your characters are, and how they find themselves in various kinky situations, writing the actual sex is a breeze. Creating a sexual fantasy is partially dependent on your sexuality, but it’s also largely based on pleasing your audience.

Stay Concise

Building up a great, sexy circumstance is over half of the battle when writing about sexuality. The rest of the battle comes down to the quality of your writing.

While you don’t need to need to be Shakespeare, bad writing will severely distract from your sexual fantasy.

Leave conversations about characters’ emotions and internal monologue to a minimum. Focus on what characters say and do, rather than what they think and feel, so that your writing moves along smoothly. The audience can infer thoughts and emotions, which will enhance the reading experience.

Your descriptions of places, people, and situations should be precise but brief. You don’t need to get into every last detail — make sure you keep the rhythm of the story moving. The Hemingway app is a wonderful tool to help you bring conciseness and precision into your writing.

Writing a Fantasy

When it comes to sexuality, human beings are never short on imagination. Writing a fantasy is all about playing with the human imagination, and giving people a taste of what they don’t normally get in their everyday life.

Consider common fantasies, focus on the situation rather than the sexual details, play with people’s imaginations, and keep your writing concise, and you’ll surely write a fantasy that will have people drooling for more.

For more information, ask us a question today.